Self-sabotage and You

Insecurity, procrastination and doubt are but a few of the ways we stump ourselves.  You have a hope and a dream, but you wait for the perfect time or perfect opportunity or the perfect whatever you feel you need to proceed. And you can’t stop thinking and planning and obsessing about your plan, dream or goal.  But you do not move forward.

I am not good enough.

No one will care.

Who will want that?

How will I afford to do it?

These are just a few of the ways we talk ourselves out of moving forward.  I have been living these very thoughts for years.  Letting myself down.  Not being true to who I am and what I truly want.  How do we break free of these constraints that we have put on ourselves.  Let’s face it…no one but us is sabotaging our dreams.  We are!

It is time to stop.

Fear was running my life.  Fear of what people would think.  Fear of failure.  Fear of the unknown.  Fear of the how.  Fear…fear…fear.

Breaking free! Moving past the fear! What is the trick? the magic? How do other people make it look so easy? Those successful ones.  Who am I to think I could be like them?

We are all unique.  We all have gifts.  We all have a responsibility to share them.  The big question you ask is how?

Belief! Believe you are worthy.  Believe you are special.  Believe in yourself.  Believe in your gifts and talents.

You are not alone.  You are never alone.  That little voice in your head encouraging you that is Source: God, Angels, Guides, Ascended Masters, Goddess, The Universe…

I can give you all the advice in the world about finding your tribe or people to encourage you and other external help, but you must find the way through yourself with the help of a higher power, whoever/whatever you believe in.  That is where it all starts…everything flows from that.  We give our power away to easily to others…we must find a way to Be one with spirit and all else flows.